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re: Help me, oral sex with HIV+ woman
#160048 - 09/15/05 01:59 AM
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11 days before, i made an oral sex with a girl without protection, then i ejected into her mouth, maybe around 1 miniute. 2 days later, i had doubts, so i took her to test HIV. The result is she infected HIV+. I did not know to take PEP medication until i knew the result. After that, a counsellor told me that i should take a PEP medication in a month. Now, i use a PEP (medicine's name is lamzidivir) from the 9th day of the bad day. I'm very scared. I can stand anymore. Could you show me it have any methods or results i can decrease the risk of infected HIV? Another medicine? Or any medic center in the world can resolve my circumstance.
i am very appreciated your replication. But i feel that i am infected. I am so scared. I can not sleep, can not working, I feel i am a sinful man. If i am really infected, i do not want to live any more. I remember the counselor said that he recognize she had inflammation of her eyes. I guess that she also had the same problems with her mouth. May be she know she was infected, and she purposeful infected virus HIV+ to me. So, my doctor said that the rish of oral sex also fairy high, because it may be appear unvisible hurt marks on penis. all of these proved that i wll be infected. my god, i will die. i wonder who can get me out this dead problem. I am in Vietnam now. I would like to ask you there are any chances i can change my situation or i must wait for a month, 3 month, and 6 month? I am very sad, stressful. I know that i have a weak body, i am easy to catch a cold, and i also had disorder of large intestine now. I have just passed a psychology trauma before. Now i fall in the dead hole. who can tell me how many percent i can be infected? In reality, there are any cases infected through oral sex? I am a teacher of a university, i can not immagine that if everybody know this, my colleages, my students, my family? I intend to tell the truth to my boss, also my teacher. depend on your experience how must i do if it will be on the worst circumstance. I am sad, can not thinking, can not sleeping, can not enjoy with everybody. Oh my god, i wish i had a maracle to resolve these bad problems.
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go to a theraphyst, a good one. Stop beating yourself with the stick, and feeling self pitty, there is nothing worse than your negative thoughts, so if you want to get out of that hole, only you can do that, but not with that attitude.
you are negative, as far as i can tell, but if you want to believe the contrary and live in fears, well there is nothing no one can do.
take this words my men, you are ok, stop worrying and start living.
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If all that happened is that she gave you oral sex then you should NOT be taking PEP! It's not a high risk activity, even if she's positive. You are only exposed to her salivia, not her blood or vaginal fluids.
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a sinful man
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Unregistered
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thank you for your all replications
you know i am still in a bad thinking. my doctor also said the risk to be infected very low. but i wonder "very low" what it mean? would you please tell me how many percent i will be infected? are there any cases in the world or in USA infected througn oral sex in case the partner infected HIV+? i am still scared. i am still obsessing and can not concentrate on verything. i always think about the death. in deep my mind, i will die. i did a stupid, a crazy work. oh, my god, i'm crying and broken down. i remember more other information. in that bad time, i had a scalded wound on my rignt foot. i wonder HIV virus can transmiss through my would? when the girl just finished blood test, i am crazy use the nail of my thumb touch on a little blood on her arm. oh, crazy crazy work. who can tell me the risk of these situations. i know this time i can not change anything. but who can tell me how many percent i am will be infected HIV+? oh, my god, if i am infected, i will die soon.
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STOP WORRYING.
i think you should visit a counselour, and vent this out with someone who can be in the same room with you, you will realize things are not as bad as you think, and you are only wasting your time in negative thougts.
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