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Hello everyone,

Last June 4, while traveling, I decided that I would try other sexual experiences (anal sex) and got into contact with a male prostitute. Long story short, there was some roleplay on his part, some very light biting (no blood whatsoever), very light fingering from him, and when he tried to penetrate me (he was using a condom), it was painful and I wasn't enjoying it, so I stopped it. He used lubricant.

Later, on that same day, I contacted a female "Mistress". She did perform anal sex to me (I was the receiver), using different dildos. She did clean the dildos before using them on me (at least with water, since I saw her cleaning them but did not asked her if she used anything else). She also did some flogging.

A couple of days later (about a week) I saw a strange animal (maybe a lice?) on my pubic hair, and got rid of it. Never have seen another one...

I felt nothing "strange" until three and a half (3 1/2) weeks later. I had diarrhea, wich was nothing strange to me since I was already going through a flu. However, after the diarrhea came a strange feeling in my anus. It was itchy. At first I thought I had a hemorrhoid, and had medication. It didn't got much better, so I went to the doctor. He checked me out and told me I had "tear" so that was probably the cause; he also told me it may have been caused by the diarrhea (apparently it’s acid). I also asked him for STD testing. I got tested 32 days after the sex acts and tested negative for HIV, Syphillis and Chlamydia. A week later I tested for Hepatitis A-B-C (since I had liver enzyme levels very high, except bilirubin) and also came back negative.Now, what's the problem? I have this strange sensation on my penis, wich may be called burning or itching (not when urinating) wich has, in my opinion, gotten worst. It started about 2-3 days after the anal itch, very mild, and though it is STILL mild, it's definitely not me being hypochondriac. I even had what could have been conjunctivitis, wich I treated with Neomycin and Polymyxin B Sulfates and Dexamethasone and was quickly gone (even though chlamydia is treated with tetracycline..)However... I came back negative for chlamydia!

I have read other posts and I am aware that my HIV risk is very low. The chances that the dildos were infected is slim, since the virus is so fragile once out of the body and they were probably used only by me on that day. Even if the wered used earlier that day, they did not had any visible fluids and they were cleaned. The male prostitute, in the maybe 2-4 seconds of penetration, used a condom. I did not saw him using his finger on him before using it on me. I was aware I was taking a risk by going to prostitutes, but I thought I played it safe... and now this happens.

The worst part is that now I have gone serious with a woman(I wasn't engaged or anything with her when I experimented) and now I am not only preocuppied for myself, but for her. I informed her I may be infected with an STD (obviously did not told her why I was scared) and I have not penetrated her because of this. I found I had (this is the strange/lucky part of the story) both doxycycline and Cipro in my house, and I have enough of them to follow CDC's guidelines for treatment of chlamydia and ghonorrhea. Right now I am in my second day of treatment.

Now, taking all that into consideration...

1. Am I right that my HIV risk is close to zero? (I am worried since I feel I may have contacted chlamydia and I thought I practiced safe sex...and I'm just wondering if I played it safe and caught something... maybe I could have caught HIV also).
2. Can this burning/itching on the tip of the penis be caused by the "tear" on the anus, and it's possible, constant infection with stools? (someone may have gone through this)
3. Is there someone who knows (or know where I should search) how much time can Chlamydia and Ghonorrhea survive outside of the human body? (I have already done multiple searches and have only found the time for HIV and Hepatitis).
4.Anybody has an explanation for these strange symptoms?

Thanks in advance

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