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Mutual Masterbation
      #14714 - 01/15/01 03:15 PM

After reading some of the responses to the trash can question I'm almost afraid to ask this question but my concern and anxiety need to be to put to rest so here goes:
About two months ago I went to a "spa" and recieved a naked massage. Near the end of the session, while she was masterbating me, I reached down and touched the opening to her vagina. A few seconds later I brushed her vagina with my arm. On both ocassions, I did get some vaginal secretions on me; however; they never came anywhere near any breaks in my skin. In addition, I never penetrated her, I don't not believe she touched herself at any time during the sessions and when I asked if the "spa" over anything more than naked massage I was told, rather emphatically, no.

Intellectually, I think my risks are pretty low.
Emotionally, I feel guilty and stupid for even going there and fearful that I now might have HIV. Thoughts?

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      #14716 - 01/15/01 04:50 PM

Intellectually you are right, your risk is pretty low. I would say non-existent. You already know why you are fearful of having HIV. You said yourself you feel quilty and stupid for going in the first place. Your mind is just punishing you for an act you perceive as wrong. Test if you want to give yourself intellectual piece of mind, but look at what motivated you in the first place in order to come to terms with your guilt.


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