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Anxious and Depressed
      #78949 - 12/03/03 10:45 PM

Last week I had sex with an HIV+ person and I am going crazy (I am HIV-). I have dropped out of school and quit my job because I cannot function with so much anxiety, fear, and depression. I went to the emergency room as soon as I found out that he was HIV+ and I was given some antiretroviral meds (PEP) for 28 days. The sad part is that the guy I was with came onto me without telling me about his HIV status. I french kissed him for a good amount of time, then we dry humped naked. I am afraid that I might have gotten infected by having my penis touch his penis. In addition, right after I came he gave me a blow job. Then he lied on the side and j/o by himself and he came. I slightly touched his cum when he came over to hug me. I didn't want to reject him so I hugged him back. I saw that my hand has a slight chapping, like a little white line of skin. After about five minutes of hugging I went to the bathroom to wash my hands and my penis and I also urinated. I am so afraid that I opened myself up to infection in any of these ways. I feel really anxious.



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Re: Anxious and Depressed new
      #78959 - 12/04/03 10:12 AM

Relax, it seems to me you had SAFE sex. Even if not, there is life after infection.

you have made yourself crazy with fear. What would you do in a real crisis?

How was the blow job?



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Re: Anxious and Depressed new
      #79030 - 12/06/03 11:01 PM

IT IS REALLY SAD THAT YOU GOT FREAKED WITH THE TRUTH. YOU CERTAINLY SHOULD TAKE SOME CLASSES ABOUT SAFE SEX, AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY BY YOUR ACTS, HAVING SEX IS NOT ONLY THE PLEASURE , IT HAS CONSEQUENCES, GOOD AND BAD, AND WHEN YOU PLAY, YOU SHOULD BE AWARE OF THE RISK OF NOT GETTING THE RESULTS YOU WANTED. GO AHEAD AND TAKE THE TEST.



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Re: Anxious and Depressed new
      #79279 - 12/17/03 08:55 PM

Ignore that A-hole, he is probably and HIV+ guy who practices the "don't ask, don't tell" policy and is feeling some guilt. I am sorry the HiV+ guy didn't tell you. However, what you did is no risk and you shouldn't worry. Congratulate yourself for not doing anything risky.



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