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#40339 - 09/18/02 10:35 PM
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I read a post where a gay man said he performed oral sex on a guy and then he inserted him. He then said the guy inserted him and gave him oral.
Is that common among gay sex? I thought only one guy played the female role.
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Myself and some of my partners that I have had don't play "female". If we wanted a woman then we would seek one out. It's stupid for someone to be strictly top or bottom. Why limit yourself. I have found that these so called strictly tops have a problem being gay, so they lie to themselfs by thinking that if they don't bottom it makes them more of a man or "straight". The only thing that it makes someone is selfish and limited.
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But some of you seem so feminine and not likely to top.
Do you think a person strickly bottom is more gay??
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No. Just more honest and secure with their sexuality.
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But I think a lot of times the fem. behavior is exaggerated on purpose to sometimes annoy. Not all gay men are a bunch of flamming queens like t.v. and hollywood make us out to be. It makes it tough on everyone that doesn't act that way. That makes people have an un-fair idea of how gay people are.
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What do you guys think about religion and God? Do you feel that God frowns on your behavior?
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Reged: 04/12/02
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I don't believe in a Christian God or the devil.
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What God do you believe in? Allah? Buddah?
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Theism is for those who have not yet woken up to the fact that there is no hand to hold. click for more.
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What a moronic liberal comment that was....
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gregg629
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Your question made me laugh, but I felt I needed to respond anyway.
There are pleasure zones all over the body (all over everyone's bodies, gay, straight, male, female) I have several female friends who have been married for years, their husbands while accepting of gays have never done anything with a guy and would never consider it, however they love to have their wives rim them or put vibrators in their asses while they are [censored], they say the sensation of [censored] their wife while having something up their ass drives them wild and makes their orgasam much stronger. So are these straight guys playing the female role or is they just very open and honest with themselves and their bodies about what feels good and going with it.
I have met guys before who have very little interest in being [censored]. I am one of those actually. Sensation wise it does very little for me, however when I'm with a partner who I know loves it I will do it now and then mostly because of the pleasure I know it gives him. For me I have a very strong oral sensation, other guys have a very strong anal sensation.
I guess what made me laugh is the fact that by what you wrote you feel people have sexual roles that they must stick with or play out for a relationship to work properly. Life is too short to be stuck in a role, you have to go with what feels good and makes you happy. You also have to be willing to expand your mind, explore your sexuality and learn what feels good, there are some awsome things out there, but if your stuck in a role saying "I'M A TOP" then you might never know what your missing.
Good Luck.
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the pure fact it all comes down to
is... how effective it really is...
spirituality is like HIV drugs
people smile and say it works
and in the meantime you are getting caught
up in the words of someone else...
in a world of a million hands...
who says there is not a hand to hold?
that's just absurd
and a woman with a crazy haircut and a rope
is not a promise that will make you feel better
no matter how wise she sounds...
puh! :)
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