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partner is undetectable
#3399 - 04/06/00 08:23 PM
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Well, this is my story. I have been dating this wonderful guy now for about 4 months. He and I have grown very close to one another very quickly. He made no bones about telling me very early on that he tested postive 2 years ago and has been taking the”cocktail” ever since. He has tested undetectable through out those 2 years. His test routinely come back showing zero viral load and a strong t-cell count . He gets another test done too but I forget what it is.
He an I often have unprotected sex. I am the insertive partner (top). And he is always the receptive partner. When I say we have sex often I mean just about every day.
I just got tested this past weekend and will have my results back on Friday. I am not concerned at all to be honest. But should I be? I know that this is very risky behavior and we both know it’s wrong. However it’s hard for me to feel that he can infect me I feel very safe with him even though I know that getting infected has nothing to do with how safe I feel or how much he wuld never intentionally hurt me.
I think another reason why I do it. Besides the actual physical sensation, is that he once told me that they way I make love to him makes him feel that he is absolutely HIV negative and that there is nothing to be afraid of.
Is there anyone out there who is in a similar situation, anyone out there been in a similar situation? I welcome any and all responces,….my email address should be displayed in case its not, JPJP02130@aol.com or reply here
Thanx
-A
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I don't think I 've been in the exact situation, but I have gone through a period of having unprotected sex as the top, thinking that I was at a lower risk of getting HIV. I am negative, even though I didn't use a condom with any one for about a year. I think you should look at the reasons you have unprotected sex. Do you do it because you want to show your partner that you love him, do you feel a tad bit of sarrow and you want to make him feel as good as possible? You sound like you know what your doing. You are putting yourself in the highest risk catagory and for what? this is the real question. Does putting yourself at risk bring you closer to him? I think it would be wrong of me to tell you not to do it. I believe that if you know what you are doing and you do it, there really isn't a right and wrong, there are only choices, and this is one you have made. You should know that choices come in packages. my mother calls them consequences to your actions. If you're going to take it take it all. It's ok to choose using or not using as long as you are doing it because you want to.
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I dont mean to sound rude, but I think it is RIDICULOUS to have unprotected sex with someone who you know is HIV+. You must have a death wish or something .I hope this great sex is worth it all.What is the big deal about using condoms?? Although your BF may have a small viral presence in his blood, he still has HIV. I would not let someone I care about expose themselves so much to this disease like he has.
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