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karan9delhi
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      #248883 - 12/25/09 01:25 PM

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Re: Condom broke!!!! Advice needed new
      #248907 - 12/27/09 06:48 PM

Well first of all, if you know your status you cant just say its not your fault the condom broke. You NEED to tell your partners you are positive. YOU must give them a chance to decide if they want to continue. I wasnt given that chance, and here I am POSITIVE. Not everyone is going to say no to having sex with you. My partner and I have a normal sex life, he is NEG. Its very important for you to tell your sex partners your status. And next time DOUBLE up and take it easy on the top, lol.

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karan9delhi
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Re: Condom broke!!!! Advice needed new
      #248909 - 12/28/09 12:25 AM

Thankyou.
I would tell them that m poz when i hv sex next time.
But, Everybody would come to know about my status.Wud that be fine !!

TC

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Re: Condom broke!!!! Advi new
      #248913 - 12/28/09 08:36 PM

Sounds like a very selfish and narrow minded attitude. If you are having multiple partners and you engage in sexual activities and you are positive, then it is your duty to inform them, let them make the choice if they want to put their LIVES in your hands.

Seems simple to me, tell the truth, and face the consequences.

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Re: Condom broke!!!! Advice needed new
      #248949 - 12/31/09 02:49 PM

Hey TC, I dont know how to answer that, its a different situation for everyone. But wouldnt you want your sex partner to tell you if he was positive? ask your self would you still have sex with him? and if he said no, would you go tell everyone? its a touchy question, and not everybody would be honest in answering but thats the chance you take.

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Re: Condom broke!!!! Advi new
      #248981 - 01/04/10 04:01 AM

Reading this post and the only thing that stuck in my mind is doesn't matter if you are positive or negative but it is both your responsibility and your partners responsibility to practice safe sex at all times. Does it matter at this stage in life how you got it? NO it doesn't it happened and it is now time to change your life, your health, your attitudes to, treat everyone you meet as being positive regardless if they say they are negative, don't trust their word trust their actions by wearing condoms and practicing safe sex at all times.

most people positive out there in the real world don't know they are positive and some do know and that is why they don't go for the test because they know the outcome of that test so don't be fooled by whose responsible to tell and take precaution it is both partners or multiple partners responsibility to take care of themselves at all times.

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Re: Condom broke!!!! Advi new
      #249216 - 01/26/10 10:05 AM

Thankyou for all ur support.
Now, i tell ppl directly or indirectly abt my HIV status...dont care whatever the result may be..but i do what i want...

Ronnie : thats rite we should always do safe sex...but when i know i m HIV positve .. its better i tell that..those who never go for test ... atlest they are not hundred percent confirmed...

i know one they there wud be cure for this...and god is the supreme poWer..Trust me there wud be cure soon...

God bless u ..

tc

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Re: Condom broke!!!! Advi new
      #249224 - 01/27/10 12:16 AM

TC

we need to focus on mental health that means that by creating awareness of the mind and spiritualism one can live a good life. Responsibility starts with us.

good to see you back

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