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My lover is HIV+
      #205222 - 08/28/06 04:35 PM

Hello, About ten months ago my lover told me he was HIV+. At the time, he was very sick and in the hospital from an infection. I basicly took care of him
and when he came home from the hospital, he moved in with me for several months. We really didn't discuss his hiv status much. About four months ago, he
decided to move out on his own. Needless to say, there is a lot of other stuff that happened between us but we separated for a while. We got back together
about two months ago but he has been very distant. Altough he has found his own place, it feels like we're not really lovers although he says we still
are and that he loves me. He seems very depressed. We ahven't been intamate for over a year. I am so confused and don't know what to do for him or what
to say to him sometimes. I'm also frustrated because although it's not that I need the sex but I do need to know I am loved. I know he's going through
so much but he seems to not want to deal with it. A part of me wants to leave the situation butthen I feel so guilty. I love him with all my heart but
I'm so frustrated and feel very hurt about so many things. Would like to talk to others who have found out they are HIV or who are in relationships with
someone who is HIV+, particularly gay men. THanks!

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