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sadface
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Does anal hurt?
      #197135 - 06/22/06 04:59 PM

Ok, I am a straight female. Hubby and I have been talking about anal sex in the bedroom. I think we both want to try it. I am so scared that it will hurt. Any suggestions? And does it really feel "that" good? We need some excitement, so that was one of our options...Any thoughts?
SF

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197137 - 06/22/06 05:09 PM

Well, at first I promise you it will hurt. You have to be in the right frame of mind and also have to be able to relax and enjoy your partner. I would suggest a large bottle of jack daniels and perhaps a few tokes from the wacky weed. After first entry and you get past the initial shock, you should enjoy it. Oh, use lube.....

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197156 - 06/22/06 07:29 PM

Missy..... it doesnt always hurt. It is in large part the responsibility of both partners to engage in "foreplay". Its essential......fingers...etc. There is a website about anal sex by the way. I'll send you PM.

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197162 - 06/22/06 07:37 PM

OMG!! Bear, I had no idea ths was an option for me and Will! Wow Wee...




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franfrog
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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197170 - 06/22/06 07:49 PM

Ok I tried it and it felt like I had to go poo. I did it again after that and it was fine. Tried a few times after and hurt like hell.

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Bear60
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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197172 - 06/22/06 08:04 PM

Fran.....stop trying to get your SUV up there!!!!!

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197179 - 06/22/06 09:00 PM

A little trick... Use a doooosh (sp) so you know you are all whisle clean. Then relax... WEEEEEEEE! Plenty of lube and plenty of time and a rubber. Be sure to draw a happy face on your butt as well. If you have a tiny tiny dildo, start there and practice while your watching Oprah then build up to the size of your husband, then when the man comes home, you be already.... God this sounds so weird telling a girl this! Am I giving to many gay secrets away?

I thought straight people just did the "winky"???

Love

Eric "RatBoy"

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sadface
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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197182 - 06/22/06 09:09 PM

Us straight people do the "winky" and the "kinky" too. I can hang with the gay big dogs too, ya know!!
Thanks you guys, we are working on rekindling the flame. Soooooo, I wanted to shock his socks off (and boxers) by trying something...fun! Do you use Ky or is there something else that is better? Douche before? I never tried it THERE, but there is a first time for everything. Do men usually douche before? I am curios now. Thanks a bunch my friends..
Kisses,
Missy

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197186 - 06/22/06 09:21 PM

Only cool gay guys do... It takes out any anxiety you might have. I recomend going in the backyard and just getting the gardenhose out. Or go to a sex shop. They are very common. Yes dushing is very important for the bottom boy (me). I dont use KY, there are so many kewl lubes out there that are waterbased and dont fuck up your rubber. They even have some that smell nice.. Like rose peddles.. As far as it feeling good. I dont have a winky, but my eyes roll back in my head and I think Ive gone to heaven. Clear enough?

I still feel weird about telling girls about my sex life..

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197189 - 06/22/06 09:25 PM

Don't feel weird, yes I am a girl..but, who cares. We both know what we like and how we like it!! LOL
Love ya Eric,
Mis
Rose petals huh?

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197190 - 06/22/06 09:26 PM

Florida, I will let you know how it goes..no porn here, just pure honesty!!
Love you too....
Mis

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Re: Does anal hurt? new
      #197192 - 06/22/06 09:37 PM

D - Clorox?? "Fill" me "in"?

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Bear60
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Re: Does anal hurt?
      #197195 - 06/22/06 10:37 PM

OMG garden hose.......holy cow....no wonder Eric has been stepping in bear turds on his lawn.

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Re: Does anal hurt?
      #197200 - 06/22/06 11:40 PM

Ok, I asked for that one with the pot smoking Joel thingy! My mouth was open to...

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Re: Does anal hurt?
      #197229 - 06/23/06 08:52 AM

*L* Missy...you are hysterical! I don't know what I expected when I clicked on this thread...but boy am I glad I did...Fran...why are you putting SUVs up your butt? Miss...I tried it....after the initial feeling that Fran told you about it was fine...I got kinda bored and was doing a cross word puzzel up front but he was happy as hell out back!

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