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Anonymous
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Playing the odds while barebacking
      #210040 - 10/04/06 08:27 AM

I am planning a bareback Halloween spectacular and I am a gay male bottom. I read that the odds of contracting HIV from a known positive could be 1 in 25 and as good as 1 in 100 so if I am receiving ejaculate from 5 men then my odds would be 1 in 5 or as good as 1 in 20 of getting HIV so the odds are in my favor and even better because the status of these men is unknown, correct?

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mpo131
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210043 - 10/04/06 09:11 AM

Your kidding me, right?

I can't imagine anyone in this day and age still willing to take a risk like that.

Also, I can't think of a more high risk scenario than what you just described. I would STRONGLY encourage you to rethink your little Halloween party. In fact, if you engage in this type of behavior regularly, then you need to assure YOUR status before putting someone else at risk.

Good luck,-- you're gonna need it. Use flippin' condoms man!

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Anonymous
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210046 - 10/04/06 09:26 AM

Seek mental help immediately to figure out why you want this virus. There is a term for your illness. It's called bug chasing. Get help. No kidding.

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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210064 - 10/04/06 10:37 AM

I said the odds were in my favor for NOT contracting HIV.

Now if someone comes on this board and they got HIV because they slipped up one night and did something stupid do you tell them that they are now going to waste limited resources? Are you going to tell them that they played russian roulette and lost and are going to die? How are they any different than someone who is upfront about being unsafe?

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RevAnn
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210082 - 10/04/06 10:55 AM

Heres the differance..

You are trying to figure out the odds of not getting HIV (or so you say) while you plan to engage in something that you know full well is an unsafe!

Most people engage in the behavior first and then get hit; "duh, I think I did something stupid." You are the opposite; "duh, I am going to do something stupid." See, you don't have to do this but you appearently want to, so you are not going to get a lot of sympothy from people like me who try to tell people how to be careful and how not to get AIDS.

So go have fun take that risk, but do not come back here looking for sympothy.

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Anonymous
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210109 - 10/04/06 11:36 AM

If you dont see the difference you need to get your head read. You want to know the chances of KNOWINGLY and PREMEDIATING someone that is known poz to jam his dick in your ass. Well maybe the last time it hit you in the head because you just arent thinking straight.(pardon the pun lolol)
Enjoy your pre HIV life. As with thought like this...you will have it soon. Congrats.

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AIDS2HIV
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Anonymous
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210114 - 10/04/06 12:13 PM

Well, I have gotten some food for thought. I haven't done anything illegal because I tested negative 6 months ago and I haven't had sex since. My boyfriend did dump me because he said I suffer from low self esteem and that I need mental help. Maybe was right.

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polywog
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210264 - 10/04/06 06:03 PM

you need to go see a counsellor. for those of us here infected with HIV, reading a post from someone planning to do something so careless is like you're puposely trying to contract it. Worse, i would wager that you'd be equally as guilty of passing it on to someone else if you become, or are not already +ve. There has been millions spent on campaigns and public awareness of safe sex practices to protect yourself and others. To publicly post that you are proposing the most common and highest risk behaviour in a party-like atmosphere is extremely offensive to us with this disease - it's like you are toying with it. Don't play games with HIV

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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210307 - 10/04/06 09:46 PM

I am a gay male bottom.... Let me know when you test pos..

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Anonymous
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210309 - 10/04/06 09:57 PM

I tested negative six months ago and haven't had sex since so I HAVE NOT PASSED ANYTHING TO ANYONE. I am going to call a counselor/psychologist tomorrow to help with my low self esteem and self destruction issues. I will NOT be having the party...sorry to everyone.

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Anonymous
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210310 - 10/04/06 10:00 PM

Eric is a bottom...hee hee. I love you Eric. You should make love/ have wild sex with Will. You go boy!

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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking new
      #210314 - 10/04/06 10:49 PM

good moves my friend.... :)

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Anonymous
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking
      #210337 - 10/05/06 03:09 AM

I feel sorry for you. If you are so unhappy please seek help. Why do you need a party anyway? Screw it ,change your whole live and forget about the sex. You will end up in misery and sickness. You will also infect others after you become infected. I doubt that would matter to you but it will breing horror to others. I'm sure ther is someone that loves you in this world think what you will do to them with this thing you want so bad. Good luck, please don't come back here a whine after you become infected.

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Anonymous
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Re: Playing the odds while barebacking
      #210349 - 10/05/06 05:56 AM

good for you...
i am also a gay male, but top.
you do not have to stop having a good time, just a safe time. sex with protection can be equaly hot. you still can have 10 guys fuck you in one night, as long as you and them are safe, wear condoms, and water based lube, you should be ok. there is no reason to make yourself sick. like othres had say here, you do not play games with HIV.
hiv is not the end of sex... it is the reason why we should be extremely careful.

if i was in your area, and got an invite to your party, and the rules of it will be, do whomever you want, but use proper protection, and that would it be available in your party(stack of comdoms, lubes, etc), i will be the first one giving you the first fuck.

sex life does not have to stop by this desease, it only has to become more responsible about it.

i hope that you find good help, and for now on thing safety first.
good luck.

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