Should I tell my Parents?
Dec 5, 2001
I recently discovered some.. well i would say some lumps on my vaginal area. I am young and don't want to tell my parents because they will think badly of me... What could the lumps be and how should I tell them?
Response from Mr. Kull
Many young people have difficulty talking with their parents about issues that involve sexuality and sexual health. Sometimes young peoples' fears are true: parents can also have difficulty talking with their children about sex or even thinking about their child's sexuality. It is also possible that a young person's fears are unfounded. There are plenty of parents out there who are willing to talk with their kids about sex and to be supportive when it comes to issues around sexual/reproductive health. I know it can be scary talking with your parents about your discovery, but only you can gauge how they might respond.
It's not really clear what these lumps on your vaginal area are or what they are related to. They could very well be nothing of consequence. That doesn't mean you should ignore what's going on with your body. Asking questions and learning more about your body and how it functions is important.
If you are uncomfortable asking for your parents' advice or help, try turning to another family member or adult who you can trust and who will respect your confidentiality. If you think that these "lumps" might be related to a sexually transmitted infection (that is only possible if you have been sexually active), you might be able to be examined and/or treated without your parents' consent depending on the laws in your state (see "Underage Testing" http://thebody.com/Forums/AIDS/SafeSex/Current/Q93432.qna).
Planned Parenthood (plannedparenthood.org) is a great resource for women with questions, issues, and concerns about sexual/reproductive health. Situations like yours are common and Planned Parenthood could hopefully provide you with some useful guidance.
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