|How do I dump an obsessive one night stand?
Jul 5, 2011
Recently on a vacation, I had unprotected sex with a lady while we were both stupidly drunk. We now live on different continents but she is calling me every time saying she misses me and is waiting for my next visit. I don't know whether or not to tell her that I have HIV before my next visit. Any advise? I am on medication and my viral load is undetectable.
| Response from Dr. Frascino
You're wondering how to dump your obsessive one-night-stand gal from across The Pond? Well, advising her you are virally enhanced and then reminding her you had unprotected sex should more than do the trick I would think. But that aside, you really need to advise her of your positively charged status, because she needs HIV testing at the three- and six-month marks, even though you are on antiretroviral therapy and have an undetectable viral load.
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