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Another Lap Dance Question

Mar 16, 2011


I really appreciate what you do here. I have been through the forum and have found much valuable information. I just wanted to clarify. I had a rather rough lap dance (three actually) whereby I had underwear and dockers on at all times. Women were nude but they placed some sort of a cotton napkin (best way I can describe it) on my lap at all times to provide an additional barrier. There is a small chance that I had an abrasion on my penis at the time from chaffing and/or masterbation without lubrication.

Aside from feeling extremely guitly about going in the first place, am I at risk and should I be getting tested for HIV? I have a wife and kids and do not want to put anyone at risk. I have already come clean with my wife and she is not concerned but I wanted to ask a professional.

Donation on the way.

Sleepless in Seatle

Response from Dr. Frascino

Hey Sleepless in Seattle,

Relax Max. Your HIV-acquisition risk for Grinding Gertrude at the Badda Bing is nonexistent. You can't contract HIV through your tighty-whities, Dockers and the "cotton napkin." HIV testing is not warranted.

I'm glad you leveled with your wife.

Thanks for your support of The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation ( It's warmly appreciated.

Stop worrying. All is well, including you, OK?

Dr. Bob

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