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Penis Touched by pussy washed hands help me plz sir i am worried.

Dec 4, 2010

i am very sorry if i am disturbing you. but i am worried i am appreaciate if you can answer my question. even right

now i am crying about my mistake. please sir answer my question please. i have a girl friend becasue i wanna know

that can i get infected by this way. i really love her sadly she met me before 6 months ago.

i read posts regarding this thing. but my situation is little bit different. let me tell my story sir.

i had a sex with a women before a year. i used a condom and i am not worried about that. but after the sex we both

went to the bathroom(after 3 or 5 minitues,even while removing the condom she didnt touch vaginal fluids.after

removing condom we talked 3 or 5 mins and then went to bathroom) and then she washed her sex thing(i dont know the

exact word bacuse i m still learning english,wel the word i used in topic i think that is not a good word to use

thats why here i dont use that word).then she washed mine. i am not very much sure about this but if she washed inside her sex thing(i am afraid she get virginal floods from

her sex thing to her hand while she washing her sex thing) and after that if she washed my pennies from that hand

can i get infected? what is she touch my uthera while washing my penis? i am really worried me please please doctor your are the only one who can help me. promise i will

never do this kind of thing again and it was my 1st sex. please sir i am waiting for your answer. sir i am sure she doesnt washed that for long she washed her sex thing maximum 8 seconds,and she washed my thing

for 3 or 4 seconds maximum. (sorry about my english sir i am from an asian country)

Response from Dr. Frascino


You're worried your gal-pal got "virginal floods from her sex thing" onto your "pennies"??? Hmm.

Your fears are unwarranted. Your HIV-acquisition risk is negligible to nonexistent, assuming the latex condom was used properly and did not break. There would be no significant HIV-transmission risk from the "virginal floods" during your post-nookie cleanup.

If my reassurance is not sufficient for you to put your irrational fears permanently to rest where they belong, then get a single HIV-antibody test. The result will undoubtedly be negative. Rapid tests provide definitive answers in as few as 20 minutes. This may be the quickest way to put an end to your tears!

Good luck. Be well.

Dr. Bob

Strayed once last week and living with fear - you're right
Time for a Change

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