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lap dance???? (3 time asked)

Aug 12, 2010

Dr Bob,

I am going crazy here!!! I went to a strip club and had a lap dance. The dancer grabbed my genitalia over my pants and underwear. I was aroused and was leaking precum. She then simulated oral sex on me by mouthing over my clothed (underwear & shorts) penis. She jerked me and I half-came (ejaculated a bit) What is her saliva soaked through my pants and mixed with precum? What are my chances of being infected with hiv? Can hiv travel through clothing? Please help, I will donate to your foundation.


Scared, anxious, and worried

Response from Dr. Frascino

Hello Scared, Anxious and Worried,

Your HIV-acquisition risk from your simulated blowjob by the Bouncing Betty at your local Badda Bing is nonexistent. Your worries are unwarranted. You can't contract HIV from a pseudo-blowjob while you've still got your tighty-whities and designer jeans on! Neither worry nor HIV testing is warranted.

Thanks for your support of The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation ( It's warmly appreciated. Now stop worrying, OK?

Be well.

Dr. Bob

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