I've been reading the magnetic couple archives on here for hours and would really like to have some form of communication with magnetic couples. When I search on google, mainly thebody.com comes up, but are there any forums exclusively for magnetic couples or people contemplating a magnetic relationship? I met an AMAZING HIV+ guy, who unfortunately only told me his HIV status after putting me at risk and now I'm on PEP and it's interfering with school, since this only happened 2 days before the semester started. My conflict pushes between forgiving such an amazing, hot, super, fantastic guy, or seeing him as this person who shared so many special moments with me while holding back some very important personal information when I was giving him my everything.

Hi,

Sorry, I don't know of any online magnetic couples forums other than what's provided here.

The decision to forgive or not is yours and yours alone. I must point out that it always takes two to do the unsafe horizontal mattress mambo. Consequently you must shoulder at least some of the responsibility for your current situation. I'm certainly not giving Mr. McBarebacker a pass, as I totally agree he, for whatever reason, did knowingly put you at risk. Couples counseling might help you sort out trust issues and provide you with a clearer understanding if Mr. McHottie is really your Mr. Happily Ever After. As Ricky would often say to Lucy, he certainly has some "splainin'" to do!

Good luck.

Dr. Bob