|Itumeleng - again!
Feb 28, 2008
Hello Dr. Bob
Thanks you for your answer. So do you think I am ok and don't need to go for a test or something. The reason I ask and I know you is very busy is that I was on this South African website and asked this same question and everyone also on this website is telling me how stupid I am and 'welcome to the club' etc. Which has now made me so worried I feel like it is making me sick. Oh my gosh have I put myself at risk.
| Response from Dr. Frascino
I don't really have anything to add to the advice I already provided. (See below.) If the latex condom was used properly and did not break, your HIV risk would be nonexistent. If you are worried, get a single rapid HIV test (or ELISA) at the three-month mark to put your irrational fears permanently to rest.
Safe Sex? Feb 26, 2008
Hi Doctor Bob
My name is Itumeleng and I am from Soweto in South Africa. My friend told me about this website and it is very good - thank you. English is not my first language so sorry if I am not that good. I am worried. On Saturday night I had sex with a man, he tolds me the next day that he has HIV. I used a condom and when he teld me this I went and check the condom and it seem fine, no breaks in it and all the stuff still in the bottom. I am very scaird now, could I get hiv? Please help, what should I do? I though that I was doing safe sex but now my friends tell me I can still get it from this.
God Bless. I am sorry I have no money for a donation, but will help to tell others how to be safe.
Response from Dr. Frascino
If the latex condom was used properly and did not break, your HIV-acquisition risk would be essentially nonexistent. HIV cannot permeate intact latex.
I would suggest you spend some time perusing the wealth of information on this site and its related links. It should help you (and hopefully your friends too) understand more about HIV, HIV prevention and safer sexual practices.
Be well. Stay well.
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