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New job, need peace of mind!

Jan 8, 2008

Thanks Dr. Bob for this forum. I have visited many times before with questions I have had regarding risks and infections to hiv. Today, I have a question for you regaring something I did and cannot find a complete answer for in the archives. Plus, it has me troubled a bit, and my mind needs to be elsewher as I just started my new job.

I was on a date with a new girl I have been seeing, and at the end of the evening I was charming enough to get an overnite invite. We did a lot of smooching and body rubbing (underwear on) and a few hours later she finished me with a handjob lubricated by saliva. Nothing else occurred, although we wanted it to, but we had no protection and I am a safe player. My issue is that the next day, I noticed that all the body rubbing we did kinda chaffed my penis, and I am worried about possible STD infections from her saliva. I always play it safe, but because of the abrasions, I am a bit worried. What do you think of my possible exposure?

Thanks in advance, and when I can again focus entirely on my new job, I'll forward some of my new and larger pay to you in the form of a donation!


Response from Dr. Frascino


Despite your rub-a-dub-dubbing causing some chafing of Mr. Happy, your spit-shine hand job was not a significant risk for STDs, including HIV. I see no cause for concern.

Good luck with your new position and new girlfriend. Thanks for your donation to The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation ( Continue to play safe and you'll stay safe.

Dr. Bob

Thank you, last question till after test
Leveled with my wife...still a bit anxious

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