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she gave me a blow job and it looks like she gave me hiv

Mar 7, 2007

hi doc i have written to u more than 7 times with no answer please doc answer me this time stress is killing me doc a woman gave me a blow job and we kissed i know oral carries a low risk for tranmission but low risk does int mean no risk i belive she gave me hiv because 3 weeks later i experienced muscle aches swollen glands swollen back knee and my body feeling hot chest back and face i think it was a fever but i did not check but i was boiling and i had a sore thraot for 2 days it all went after 1 week except the swollen back knee now that is ars?now i know u say a person should not judge by symptoms but most likely in my case the evedenice is there i will be getting tested next month it will be 6 months since my exposer i need u to tell me what is the best medication out there for hiv i live a weathy life and i can afford medication for hiv and please tell me how i can donate to your foundation i really hope u will respone your help is really needed here thank u for your time.

Response from Dr. Frascino


You may feel the "evedenice" in your case suggests you contracted HIV from an unprotected blowjob. However, I do not! Once again I'll remind you that symptoms are notoriously unreliable in predicting who is and is not HIV infected. I see no reason you should be searching for information about the best medications for HIV when the odds are astronomically in your favor that you did not contract HIV from your oral sexperience.

If you are concerned about HIV, your next step is to get an HIV test three months or more after your last potential exposure. (If you want to wait for the six-month mark, that's totally up to you.) I'm willing to bet your definitive HIV test will be negative. So for now, let's hold off on the discussion of what medications to consider, OK?

Donation information for The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation can be found on the Foundation's Web site at Thanks for your desire to help others in need. In return I'm sending you my best good-luck/good-health karma that your definitive HIV test will be negative.

Good luck.

Dr. Bob

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