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Alex, your mexican friend. I did learn the lesson, right???

Feb 14, 2007

Hi doc, how are you????

I hope that you're fine, happy and full of love.

I just writte to you, just to be certain.(i don't want to seems other WW)

The last week, i went to a party. I met a girl. She looks too pretty, by the way(i thought that she was the kylie minogue's younger sister).

I started to kiss her, and everything was ok, and in that play, the girl starts to give me oral sex (i was the insertive, i think, cause she suck my penis)

Fortunately, we talk about it before, and she put me a condom (well, y thought that it's nice make this moment more hot, right??!!)My only mistake!!! i never be careful watching the expiry date.

She starts to give me oral sex. Nice, she suck a bit, and brush a little with her teeth.

If it have some importance, there was not visible blood in her saliva.

10 minutes later i ejacalated.

I went to the bathroom, check the condom, and don't look broken. Just to be certain, i put on them some water, and don't seems broken(i inflate it).

I wash my penis with water, (the only thing available)

yesterday, a closer friend of mine told me that she is HIV +.

Obviusly, i get a little scared, but i take it easy,cause i practice safe sex (right??)

Well, now i come to ask to you....

1.- Am i at risk???? How much???

2.- Do i need to be tested,???? I'm not too wory, so, of you tell me tht it's not problem, "i believe in you" (again come to my head Kylie Minogue's sister)

3.-If the condom don't beak, i don't have nothing to worry about?????

4.- Can i continue having unprotected sex with my girlfriend????

The last thing i ever do it's put her on risk.

5.-Don't check the expiry date, and the brushing of the girl's teeths make the exposure more risky, even if the condom don't look broken????

I hope deserve one "no way, no how" or "zero, nada" from you.

Thanks for all, my dear friend.

I hope that you're not dissapointed of me.

Thanks, your amigo Alex

Response from Dr. Frascino

Hello Alex,

Yes, you learned your lessons well!

1. Nonexistent, assuming the condom was used properly and didn't break.

2. I see no need for HIV testing.

3. Correct!

4. Unprotected sex (even with your girlfriend) poses some degree of risk for STDs, including HIV, as well as for unwanted pregnancy.

5. The reason not to use expired condoms is that old latex is more likely to break. Your condom did not break, so I see no cause for worry, even if you didn't check the expiry date. A toothy blowjob, although uncomfortable, is not a problem, so long as it doesn't tear the condom or traumatize Mr. Happy.

To sum up, HIV is not your problem. No way. No how!

Alex, you certainly have not disappointed me! I wish everyone learned these lessons as well as you!

Stay safe. Stay well. Be happy.

Dr. Bob

Bush supporter needs some advice
Rent gal here...sorry for your loss

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