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Why are the good ones married? FORGET that..why are all the good ones gay!

Nov 16, 2006

Dr. Bob,

To be honest my state of panic brought me to this site. 3 weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a male who never told me he was positive. Ejaculation didn't take place, his viral load is undetectable and his CD4 count is 800. I have seen my doctor explained all this to her and am testing on Monday. I have read enough now to be well educated on the risks, but of course the what if's are still lurking around. Yes he should have told me. And yes I should have used a condemn regardless. Now all I can do is wait.

Thanks for bringing a sense of humor to your educated responses. Sometime I have just laughed out loud, even at this difficult time.

"The Body" has done so much and I am sure saved many lives.

Knowledge is power.

Thanks so much. Much love to you and Dr. Steve

Response from Dr. Frascino


Why are all the good ones gay? Hmmm . . . well, I'm not really sure. Just lucky I guess!

Be well. Stay well. (Your Mr. Right is out there and he will find you!)

Dr. Bob

vagina to vagina rubbing ... and risks
Need some answers please

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