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is it safe please?

May 8, 2006

Hello Doctor, Thanks for the great work you are doin! I enjoy the forum a lot. Having searched a lot, I am still confused about my question: This may sound ridiculous, but does HIV get through pants or underwears? I helped this guy jack off, but he was wearing his pants, still I possibly got some of his PRECUM on my hand,(coz his pants might be a bit wet, cant remember) Well, I didnt go any further, because I felt guilty. Since I was really horny, then I went to the toilet right away, took my penis out, when I started to jerk off, I realized I should wash my hands, so I went to the tap, but there was only small water from the tap, anyways, I briefly washed my hands.(WITHOUT soap) then went back to jack off and cum.(which was really strong:-)) I am now very nervous, am I safe? My bf(STD free) is coming next week, he will definitely ask to have sex without condoms, will that be safe please? Please answer, I am in panic! btw, how can I donate from China? Looking forward to your reply! Thanks in advance!

Response from Dr. Frascino


Yep, your fears indeed qualify as ridiculous. I see absolutely no HIV risk from your giving your buddy a helping hand and then burping the nephew.

In fact, the only potentially risky thing I see in your post is having unprotected sex with your boyfriend!

Donation information for The Robert James Frascino AIDS Foundation can be found on the Foundation's Web site at We accept credit cards, direct wire transfers, money orders, checks, cash, gold teeth, family jewels and just about anything else imaginable!

Stay safe. Stay well.

Dr. Bob

From "Scared Dad" - oral white streaks - Thank you!!
Dr Bob....still need your advice still concerned

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