Hi,

I wanted to know, and I know Dr. you have other questions but given I am a law student and taking the bar soon please help answer a question for me because I am freaking out! I am worried....I had oral sex with about 10-12 men in my life, got sick and last december got tested and came out negative for the virus. Then I had oral sex with one other person (no sex with any of the men) and then I met my boyfriend on 10 months who I am having sexual and anal intercourse with but we are monogomous. We are long distance, and he used to be an armani male model and men hit on him, but he says he is completely dedicated and was tested in the summer and negative. Can I continue having a healthy sexual relationship with him? We are planning to live together next year but I am worried about getting something. At one point, should I just learn to trust the other person. All my girlfriends have unprotected sex with their boyfriends....I am completely monogomous, what should I do, should I get tested, just worried I am putting myself at great risk since we have unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. Your advice is NEEDED!

Hello,

You are dating an Armani model? Hmmm . . . I think it's probably best if I evaluate him personally. Can you please send him right over?

All your girlfriends have unprotected sex with their boyfriends? What? Are they insane?

Should you have unprotected sex with Mr. I-used-to-be-an-Armani-model? Only you can decide what risks are acceptable to you. Just because you are "completely monogamous," can you be absolutely sure with your long-distance relationship that he is equally faithful? My advice is simple. You are obviously worried or you wouldn't be writing to me. Right? So why worry? Why not just use protection, eliminate the worry and have an extra layer of protection, so to speak?

Hope that helps. Good luck on the bar exam. By the way, what do you mean men tend to hit on your guy and tell me again exactly when can I expect Armani Guy to stop by?

Dr. Bob