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Whoo Hoo and Thanks (External Penis / Vaginal Fluid Exposure)

Oct 14, 2003

Hi Bob,

Just another big thanks from an Ex-Worried Well.

I stupidly performed unprotected cunnilingus on a woman of unknown HIV status. We had protected vaginal sex after the unprotected oral play. After the intercourse, I removed my condom. My partner then unexpectedly rolled over onto me and sat directly down on my penis. No penetration took place but she sat there with my penis directly exposed to her wet "external vaginal region" (sorry to pull out the medical jargon on you!). The thought of throwing her off of me and possibly seing her head bounce off the floor as she fell off of the bed was not really that appealing so I politely "removed her from my lap" after about a minute or two of polite conversation. Basically the extent of my exposure was unprotected cunnilingus and that external vaginal (and cervical?) fluid to penis exposure. Well, just like everyone else, I have been freaking myself out for the last 12 weeks. I had all the usual symptoms (swollen neck glands, sore muscles, etc. etc.) It is truely amazing what anxiety can do to you! Thankfully, I tested negative at 12 weeks and my 'symptoms' are already going away. Bob, what you guys and girls are doing is so appreciated. You truely helped me keep my wits about me. It's amazing what a compassionate response from a professional can do to help alleviate fears. You all truely are heros. You courage, strength and wonderful outlook on life is a model for all.

Thanks again and please accept my humble donation to your worthy organization knowing that you have made a positive impact on yet another persons life.

God Bless You

relieved in NC...

Response from Dr. Frascino

Hello Relieved in NC,

Thank you for your kind comments and for taking the time to write in. I'm hopeful stories like yours will help others be able to "keep their wits about themselves" as well. And please accept my sincere gratitude for your tax-deductible donation to my foundation. You should be receiving a formal (Miss Manners-approved) thank-you via snail mail very soon! Stay well.

Dr. Bob

Please reply only one time!!!
please dr bob I know u r too busy but u could b saving a life please answewr me

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