Dear Dr.Bob,

It's Gregg.I'm the guy that had the 3 negative tests after a blow job. Well I did it again,not a blow job but I had a girl come over from an escort service.I was being so careful no penetration or blow job.I had her masterbate me and then I put my penice in between her boobs and then when I started to feel like I was going to cum I stuck two of my fingers into her vagina for about ten seconds.When I was ready to cum I grabbed my penice with the same hand I used to finger her!I realized right away and changed hands.I went into the restroom and washed my hands and inspected them for cuts I found none.I then proceded to inspect my penice for cuts or abrasions and I found none.However, later in the day I inspected my penice again and found two red spots that looked irritated or raw and began to freak out!I am concerned that I might have overlooked these the first time and I am worried that they were there when I grabbed my penice.I am so scared again Dr. and so ashamed.Did I put myself at risk? Do I need to take another test at three months for HIV?I am so embarassed to be asking you this as I am a worried well graduate. Thanks for all the help you give us.

Your Friend , Gregg

Hi Gregg,

OK, you can spell Greg with 2 "g's," but you can't spell penis with a "ce" (penice). OK?

Next, why are you so ashamed? Masturbation and a Mr. Happy "tit-o-sage" do not place you at any risk for HIV transmission. Ten seconds of vaginal finger play and then re-grabbing your one-eyed monster also do not carry a risk of HIV. The 2 red spots are nothing to worry about, and have probably already disappeared, -- right?

Do you need another HIV test? No.

Should you be embarrassed? No.

Are you still a worried well graduate? Yes, if you'll stop worrying!

You played safely, Gregg. Relax. Stay safe, and you'll continue to stay well. Now go back and join the other graduates.

Dr. Bob