no longer curious
Sep 3, 2003
Dear Dr. Frascino, I am a 34 year old married female that WAS very curious about "being" with another female. So...with my husband's knowledge, I ended my curiousity. During the encounter, she and I both participated in giving and receiving oral sex. I have since read about female to female transmission and any listing I could find on the "cunnilingus" and Hiv dangers. Two weeks after the encounter I acquired a yeast infection -- took medicine for it, had a fever for one day along with body aches, and headache. Two weeks later I had a sore throat that lasted about one month, and lastly a terrible recurring headache along with neck pain that lasted 3 to 4 weeks. I took a Home Access Test 3 months after the encounter and it returned Negative. I still am not 100 sure and I spend my day thinking about HIV. I need to know if I need another test at 6 months or not. My nerves are shot! Please let me know what I should do. Sincerely and may God bless.
Response from Dr. Frascino
Hello No Longer Curious,
Oral sex does carry some risk for STD's; however, the HIV transmission risk is extremely minimal. Your symptoms are not consistent with ARS (acute retroviral syndrome). Do you need to wait 6 months for a conclusive HIV test? No, you do not. Any FDA-approved antibody test at 3 months would give a definitive result.
In conclusion, your risk was extremely low; your 3-month test is negative. So, what should you do? I suggest you WOO-HOO! Stay well.
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