Marriage on the rocks Ryan pls help me !!!!
Feb 16, 2003
Dr Ryan , I had deep kissing,receiving oral sex with a condom with a stripper and now I am freaking out and simply out of my mind .I kept imagine things and simply cannot concentrate on things and I dare not even french kiss my wife or have any sexual contact with her . Now she is beginning to suspect me because I did not even kiss her or have sex with her and we quarrel alot of times because of this . I am thinking of doing another test at three months,six months & 12 months . The first test I did was 30 days after exposure and NEG .Plssssss Dr Ryan , tell me what should I do ? What if she wanna have sex can I go ahead?cuz if I don't,she will really suspect and if she finds out about this,I am doom !!! I really regret about what I did and now guilt and anxiety have fully over taken my mind and body .How can I not have sex or kiss with my wife for 3 solid months ?? Even an idiot will know that the husband must have did something wrong outside. OK so in my case I have two questions and I really hope you will answer it because your answer might save my marriage . 1st question : Do you think I really need to go for another test not to forget the stripper is a high risk type . 2nd question : Can I proceed having sex with my wife? After that incident,I only have sex with my wife once without condom because I must or else she will suspect me even more and I don't really know what to do . I still have 35 more days to the 90 days window period and I am going out of my mind . Please Ryan help me or else my beautiful marriage will be on the rocks . Tell me that my mind is playing tricks with me and I am just being tooooo paranoid and silly . After I did the 30 days test , my doctor told me to put this matter behind and carry on with your normal life and he says it's not even necessary for you to come for a blood test due to the risk involved it like non- existant . Can I take his word for it ? I know it's longwinded but please help Ryan .
*** My risk are deep kissing a stripper and she suck my penis with a condom on ALL THE TIME ***
Response from Mr. Kull
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