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if we dont have sex soon..tears!!

Sep 2, 2002

Dear Sir, I am a 35 year old negative woman in a relationship for 4 years with a man who has been poz for 17 years. Our sex life has dwinndled down to mybe 4 times a month. My question is: what do you suggest we do about this situation? He has taken Viagra, Testerone, and nothing seems to help his libido or urge for sex. I feel frustated, rejected, angry, and guilty. He feels devestated and just as frustrated.. We have communicated till there are no more words to be spoken. We are at our wits end and really need some good advice as I am AIDS clinician and cant figure this one out for myself! HELP US!

Response from Mr. Kull

I can't tell you what might be the cause of your sexual frustration since I do not know enough about your story. I suggest that you both seek out couple therapy to discuss your situation with a trained professional.


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