Dr. Bob: I am so used to getting the "error" message when I post a question that I seriously thought I was going to get it again and rushed to ask my question. I want to repost and ask my question in more detail.

As you know from reading my original question, i was out with a friend and was drunk. I am female. Non drug user. I blacked out and can't remember a bit of time. I am worried that i might have been taken advantage of. I have no proof and my friend did drive me from the bar, so I didn't end up going home with anyone. I did have an incident a year ago which scared me and perhaps is why I am still hung up on this. I wondered if you thought I should test because of this.

I am negative as of a test taken in June of this year. Dating the same person long term and non druger/do not share needles. Your opinion would be deeply appreciated. i am afraid to have unprotected sex with my boyfriend and am afraid to be happy.

Thank you for your time Dr. Bob. You are amazing and your strength inspires us all.

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