Advertisement
The Body: The Complete HIV/AIDS Resource
Follow Us Follow Us on Facebook Follow Us on Twitter Download Our App
Professionals >> Visit The Body PROThe Body en Espanol
  Breaking News: FDA Approves Triumeq, New Once-Daily Combination Pill
   
Ask the Experts About

Mixed-HIV-Status CouplesMixed-HIV-Status Couples
           
Rollover images to visit our other forums!
  
  • Email Email
  • Glossary Glossary


Help me understand
Feb 12, 2005

I have been dating an HIV poz woman and have real issues with it. I have read many of the responses saying someone being HIV poz is no reason not to pursue a relationship. How can you say this when the is never 100% chance of being a safe. I could die from getting this. Please explain what you mean by this so I can understand. Thanks.

Response from Dr. Remien

Yes, it is true that there is not a 100% chance of never contracting HIV when an uninfected person is an ongoing sex partner with someone who is HIV infected. However, a lot is known about how this virus is transmitted and consistent and correct use of protective barriers can reduce the risk of transmission to a very minimal level.

There are many reasons as to why one person may not want to pursue a relationship with another person. There are a lot of "risks" (physical and emotional) when we make ourselves vulnerable by truly opening ourselves to another person and daring to "fall in love." I do not believe that HIV status, in and of itself, needs to be a reason to not pursue a relationship. With that said, you or anyone else certainly has the right to select a partner based on whatever characteristic may be important to the person - whether that be HIV status or any other physical, health, or personality attribute.

To put some of this in another perspective, there is never 100% chance we will not get hit by a stray bullet or a "hit-and-run" driver, die in a plane crash, get sick from food poisoning, be injured by falling debris when walking down the street, be abandoned by a lover, etc. etc. (the list can go on and on) but we do not stop ourselves from leaving the house and engaging in life and relationships.


Previous
Mutual masturbation, and discordant couples
Next
How to help him?

  
  • Email Email
  • Glossary Glossary


 
 
Advertisement




Q&A TERMS OF USE

This forum is designed for educational purposes only, and experts are not rendering medical, mental health, legal or other professional advice or services. If you have or suspect you may have a medical, mental health, legal or other problem that requires advice, consult your own caregiver, attorney or other qualified professional.

Experts appearing on this page are independent and are solely responsible for editing and fact-checking their material. Neither TheBody.com nor any advertiser is the publisher or speaker of posted visitors' questions or the experts' material.

Review our complete terms of use and copyright notice.

Powered by ExpertViewpoint

Advertisement